Arranged marriage. This prehistoric practice followed by uncivilised tribals in backward societies is the norm in India. How did something so unnatural and contrary to human nature become tradition in this country?
It is natural for people to fall in love with other people and get married. Our bodies are built that way. Arranging for two strangers to get married is just going against human nature!
The main reason this shit happens is because Indian society is based upon keeping men and women apart. Interaction between the sexes is actively discouraged at every level from school through work. Even adults socialising in public are looked upon with suspicious and derision. This creates a society of socially challenged people who have trouble interacting with the opposite sex. Even if they do gain some social skills and hook up they are hounded by the cops and their own parents. What kind of fucked up society is this?
An arranged marriage gives these socially inept people a security blanket. All manner of dull people with no redeeming qualities whatsoever can be assured of finding an equally dull person to get married to. Men don’t have to treat women well or wine and dine them to win their affection. They can just be boorish louts and can relax in the knowledge that their parents will find some unlucky female to be their servant in the name of marriage for the rest of their lives.
In addition, they can demand a dowry from the girl’s parents and live comfortably off that money while the parents struggle to pay the debt. Women, being trapped in a patriarchal backward society have no say in anything and are forced to go along with their parents, enduring life as a lifelong servant at the house of their so-called husband.
This is Indian society. All hail.
Some people believe marriage is sacred. A middle aged woman on a debate show (’Neeya Naana’ - Vijay TV) was arguing that men and women should not get to know each other before their marriage since it spoils the sanctity of marriage. Too bad I couldn’t meet her in person to tell her this: You dumb bitch, marriage is not a holy rite. It is a rite that is conducted with the blessings of the Holy. If you don’t understand this, you have failed in life and I beseech you to ensure that we never meet in real life.
September 15th, 2008 |